This post by @ColleenDoran is excellent and helpful

I only share it though, because her middle aged grumpiness matches mine. To wit:

“The other day someone chewed me out for writing a post about setting boundaries and managing my stress.

Because to do so is a sign of privilege.

She can suck it.”

— Colleen Doran, Low Energy Life Strategies

https://colleendoran.substack.com/p/low-energy-life-strategies

Original: https://toots.dgplug.org/@jason/113338548380330835